numbskull replied: "If your HMO or private insurance wont cover it,nothing you say or do will convince your doctor to begin the therapy.
On the other hand ,if you have the money,your doctor will authorize any kind of therapy you want."
mandm68 replied: "Corey H ... There is no such thing as borderline low, or high. You either are or your not. What do you expect the benefits of testosterone replacements will do for you? What are symptoms? Do you know the side effects of testosterone replacement ? I have been on testosterone injections for years. 200mg every two weeks. I lost my testicles to an accident in 85. Let me tell you. there is a high chance of liver cancer, prostate cancer, increased body weight as i just had gastric by pass last December to lose 175 lbs as of to date. I went from a 28" waist to a 56" waist. The surgery is life threatening. i have had all kinds of skin tab growths removed, tumors 9 to be exact. And now have a cancerous tumor on my spinal cord they can't operate on. Besides the fact when i started i lost all body hair! All ! I finally got back my head hair, eyebrows, eyelashes, but my chest hair never came back fully, my pubic hair came back thinner, my beard is good. The head hair is now starting to fall out permanently because the more testosterone you produce the more it is converted in to estrogen . So testosterone the same hormone that produces hair is also the same hormone that is responsible for male patten baldness. Blading heads because of the estrogens effect on our head hair. You also get male boobs! Besides the fact that it causes rage! known facts! It causes the skin to toughen like leather,and makes finding veins for intervenous needles almost impossible. Every time i go for prostitis every other week. they poke me at least 8 times or more to find a vein for antibiotics. I think you better think hard and long before you want to start hopping into to something you relly don't want. As i said . What do you think it will accomplish for you? Im a well experience person in this field. Take it form someone who has no reason on Gods green earth to lie to you about it. Think it over! Good Luck!"
Info on Premature Ovarian Failure? I'm a 20 year old who just found out that I have premature ovarian failure. Does anyone have any info on this? I read that only 8% of women with pof are able to conceive... can anyone confirm this? It's so devastating, but if I wanted to get pregnant in the future, I would want to use my own eggs and not a donors.
I also have auto-immune problems with my thyroid, is there any advice for how to deal with all of this? I just read that soy is bad for people with thyroiditis, and I'm a vegetarian so I naturally try to eat a lot of soy... should I quit?
And my doctor mentioned taking testosterone as well as estrogen if I start HRT... does anyone have experience with taking testosterone replacement therapy as a female? Thanks so much.
Joseph replied: "I myself have never had it but from the lack of answers maybe others either are ashamed or they do not read all questions. If you have the patience read as many of these sites as you can:
Then, I would suggest contacting support groups, its the best you can do for yourself, talking with other women in your condition
Good luck and don't be so depressed, there is always hope."
Do I have a normal sex drive? I'm a 37 year old guy and I have been with my wife for 5 years, married for just one year. She's a very attractive lady and pretty darn adventurous in bed, to. I love her and find her to be a fascinating woman every day that I am with her.
For the entire time that we have been together, and even before that for me, there have been sex issues. I had performance issues my whole life and honestly also just never wanted sex all that much. This was an issue with my wife and I for our first 2.5 years together, but she stuck it out. We fought a lot because she would get upset that I would ask her not to "bug" me for sex more than three times a week, and I would get defensive about it and tell her that anything more than that was just too much for me.
I found out about 2.5 years ago that I had really, really low testosterone. So low that the doctors think I have had low testosterone my entire life. I started on a testosterone replacement therapy and it raised my testosterone levels a little, but not much. It did give me a little more sex drive and really helped with the "performance" issues.
Now, my wife says it seems like we are having sex less and that it seems like every time we do, there is some problem. For example, I often just go "numb" in the middle of sex, and even though the equipment is saying I'm still ready, I just don't want to go on. My wife says it's really abnormal for a guy to just want to stop in the middle of sex. She'll finish me another way, but she is growing tired of that and says it doesn't feel intimate to her to do that 2 out of 4 times.
I honestly could take sex or leave it. I mostly like it when we do it, but I just don't want it as much as her. I just rarely ever feel that "urge". We do it about three times a week right now, and recently I guess that has decreased to about twice per week. I could probably be fine decreasing it more. This bothers my wife. It also bothers her that we cannot do it two days in a row. I just don't feel any need to do it the next day after we did it the day before.
My wife is probably ready to leave me over this. She says she can tell that I am bascially forcing myself to do it with her most of the time, and she is right. I do like it most of the time once we are doing it, and she does some things to me and with me that most guys would only fantasize about. I am attracted to her, very. I just don't want to have sex with her all that much. She cries and says she longs for me to just want her and flirt with her and desire her. When we do have intercourse, it's usually me saying "so, should we do it?" and then we just start. The times that I DO feel an urge, like if it's around 8PM and I am watching TV with her and I feel an urge, I'll wait til we go to bed and that's when I'll say "should we do it?". She says she'd rather I just grab her and take her upstairs when I actually am feeling aroused.
I don't know what is wrong with me. I've posted here once before but without as much detail. Please don't tell me to take Viagra or one of those pills, because those have nothing to do with sex drive. Those are just to make the equipment work. My problem is that I just don't want or like sex. It also doesn't help any that my wife wants to discuss our sex issues about 3-4 times per week. It just makes me too conscious of it.
How often are you men out there who are in your mid to late 30's feeling that "urge"? Is doing it 3 times a week a lot after 5 years together (no kids) when you are 37? Does your wife want it more often than you do?
Do you ever start to do it and then just sort of lose interest in the middle of it, even when it's going pretty hot and heavy?
Do you think about sex less when you have work on your mind or when you and your wife/girlfriend have been arguing? Would you have issues doing it two days in a row, or have issues doing it if your wife wanted to discuss it all the time? Would that make you too aware of it all?
I don't know what is wrong with me, or if anything is. I suppose I should feel urges more often than I do. (I probably only think about having sex maybe once a week--IS THAT NORMAL?)
Please help.
--A desperate man
LivingDeadKat replied: "I have the same problem, except I'm a 21-year-old female. I'm beginning to think it might just be how I am, how my personality is. Sex just isn't that important to me. Maybe you're the same way."
opetke replied: "Ok,
1. You're not normal. Your testosterone is abnormally low. If the treatments aren't working, you need to go back and review your case file.
2. You're a prick. Ever consider the idea that you should continue making love to your wife, regardless of whether or not you "feel" like it?
Think of it as doing something for her. Focus on the details. And realize that her feeling her man inside of her is important.
3. While it is normal for her to be reaching her sexual peak, and you to be declining, that doesn't erase your obligation. And I don't mean a grudging obligation to just "have sex".
You're suppose to continue courting your wife. You want to go looking for someone else? You want to divorce and have that whole mess on your hands?
If your equipment don't work, use the other end. I assume your tongue is still operational.
So, get with the docs, buy your wife some flowers, and practice your ABC's with your tongue tonight.
Don't let this woman drift away from you. There is a real shortage genuinely sweet ladies out there, and most of the other guys will whisk her away from you if they can."
GUEST WHO again replied: "what's with the long questions dude you are not normal"
Sally replied: "i had the same problem in my marriage, and i got very frustrated. my husband had a testosterone of 200 (he is in early 30s), but that is not what we are divorcing about, it is porn addiction and lies that killed the marriage. are you not interested in real-life sex and also uninterested in porn? interest in porn but no interest in sex with a real woman indicates fear of intimacy.
your email is disabled. do you mind emailing me/turning on your messaging feature? i was curious how low was your testosterone, if you don't mind sharing that. i have not yet figured out what the sexual problems in my marriage were about - low testosterone, or porn addiction making normal sex too mundane, or fear of intimacy."
pretty me replied: "Well tough question!
Maybe you should talk to another or even many specialist... But yes you unfortunately are aging and that causes decrease in sex drive and more preoccupation in other stuff...
But here's the worse part if you don't please your women... who will?
and specially if you tell her no she'll want it even more... so becareful"
LCDismybffsonn replied: "you and my boyfriend could be best friends.
better yet, me and your woman could be best friends.
wooo finally i would be with someone who loves being intimate as i do.
and yea i dont know what to tell you. just like i dont know what to tell my boyfriend, who is even starting to act like this younger than you are.
all i can say is that ive about had it, i dont care if that sounds mean because i feel unwanted and just plain gross due to the fact that my boyfriend doesnt long for me anymore.
and to think, its only been 11 months"
diamond replied: "There is nothing drastically wrong with you. Did you ever stop and think that your wife may have an issue too? It is not very common for a woman to want sex as much as you mentioned here. As far as performance issues go, it may be "performance anxiety." Having too much on your mind sounds to me like you are having too much stress which can affect sex drive.I would suggest a sex therapist to help both of you through it. I don't think you need pills for that. There is nothing drastically wrong with you. Your wife seems to have a sex addiction by the way you explained this. I think a sex therapist would be helpful for both of you."
Butterfly replied: "This is not normal but you do have a medical reason. When you feel the urge at 8pm do it then don't wait. Sometimes you will just have to do it because your wife want it. Even when you not in the mood, just do it. If you do that more you may fine that your enjoying it more. So if your penis is working fine then it time for you to just do it anyway. Being a woman in my late 30's, I would not be happy during it 3 times a week. What I would do with a guy like you, you would just have to pleasure me in other ways. Hint the tongue."
Belly replied: "Have you ever thought of going to see a sex therapist?
That being said, and from another woman's point of view, like the other lady said, it may be just the way you are, personality wise. Sometimes I feel like that also, whereby I can only tolerate it no more then 3 times a week, and also find it hard to want to have sex again the very next day. We are all unique and don't necessarilly end up matching perfectly with our significant other in the libido sex testerone area (did I say that right? LOL!) And yes, some woman love to be chased, grabbed, thrown over your shoulder and, well, you know...
One other thing, you mentioned that you equipment goes numb right in the middle of it, and that may now be because of your constant worry of this sex problem thing. Seems like it is hitting you both physically and mentally now, which is really too bad.
Cheers and good luck. Let us all know how it how 'comes' out!! (Aw, come on, that was cute and funny!) (*_-)"
Kareena Kafoor replied: "WHAT ?"
Queen of Monsters replied: "Hi there:
I am going to answer your question very honestly. Every man is different. First off I"m a woman and I have known men who were in their late 40's and early to mid 50's who were like dogs in heat (no offense meant) all the time, and on the flip side, I know men who hit 40 and their "drive" went from 100 to 0. Who really and truly knows why? You say you love your wife and I believe you do. Try this, try to please her in the bedroom in ways other than intercourse. They are lots of things a couple can do (without actually doing "it") that is a lot of fun.
I will tell you honestly I met a man about 5 years ago, For the first 6 months he was a "monster". Well five years past and his drive is deader than dead. Yes, its frustrating for me (and him) but when 2 people really love each other sex isn't the "most important" thing.
You are right about the "talking thing" all that does it seem to aggravate the issue. I tihnk, A relationship is a blend, of friendship, love, doing things together, enjoying the same things whether its a game or TV or a song. Its possible that you might just be "slowing" down. Its normal. Like I said different men/different ages. You said NOT to mention viagra, but I will tell you that my guy did get them from his doctor and although it does not give you a perpetual H***rd On 24/7 it does increase "staying power" you know what I'm saying. Just try to take it slow, don't think about it constantly, let it come natural and remember, there is more to love and love-making than just with the "lower extremities" of the male body. Use your imagination. And don't worry about your wife. Sounds like she loves you. When a chick loves her man, she comes to terms with whatever is going on. As I said, even though my man is not always "up" to it, doesn't mean I would ever cheat on him, he's my best friend. To me, there is no other man. You said 3x a week. There is no "right number" what ever is right for you is what's right. My guy and me sometimes can go for months "without". What can I do? Oh sure, some people right now are thinking go get another man. No way. Try to sit down with your wife and tell her truthfully what is going on. This way she will know that's the deal and that you are not cheating on her, etc etc As I said, you can have sexual fun with your wife without going "all the way".. Just talk it out with her. She'll appreciate it, Being a chick I was appreicative when he told me what was going on with him and his drive, he is 45 and his sex drive is out the window. Every guy is different. Just take it as it comes, try not to plan it out or over-think it. But remember to communicate, your wife loves you, Let her know that you feel the same.
I wish you luck and you are not alone in your situation."
CRex replied: "Try testosterone replacements!! Seriously. Your sex drive will increase, you'll be leaner and more muscular. You're a man, don't make us look bad."
fishcan'tseewater replied: "What is normal, anyway?
I think its unfair to say just because you are a man you can never say no or have limits.
You know you have low testerone so that is a known issue.
Once a week is better than never, yeah?"
no worries replied: "i'm 44 and could care less about having sex with my wife. Happily married over 20 yrs
i honestly think it's just boredom. no issues with erections, etc.
there's just nothing there sexually.
we're best friends and definitely in love. but that's it
I'd rather watch porn then have sex with her"
inkster replied: "there are more than one way to skin a cat if you have a problem down stiars with this long question I wolud think your mouth works pretty good or you do not get down like that I had testicular cancer and lost one of the boys when I could not do the beed I liked the ice cream cone. Know that i am al better my wife still want me to go down before i put it in"

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